In the world of professional dog training, there is often a polished veneer of perfection—the "perfect" recall, the flawless agility run, or the impeccably behaved companion. However, beneath the surface of these Instagram-worthy moments lies a reality that every dog owner knows: the struggle is real, and sometimes, it is quite literally messy.
During this year’s National Dog Training Month, a campaign championed by the Association of Professional Dog Trainers (APDT), the focus is intended to be on positive reinforcement and building a stronger bond between humans and their canine counterparts. Yet, for many owners, the reality of January—with its freezing temperatures and post-holiday adjustments—can feel more like a test of patience than a celebration of success.
The Reality of Coprophagia and the Limits of Patience
Maggie, a dog whose love for life is matched only by her unfortunate, obsessive affinity for coprophagia (the consumption of feces), serves as a case study in the trials of modern pet ownership. In the winter months, when outdoor waste turns into "poopsickles," this behavior becomes a significant hurdle.
For the human primate, whose biological and cultural instincts find such behavior abhorrent, the immediate reaction is often frustration. When a dog continues to indulge in the behavior despite verbal interventions—like the classic "leave it" command—the trainer’s composure can quickly fray. This is compounded by the stress of day-to-day life, particularly when caring for an ailing pet. As noted in recent reflections by experts in the field, when an owner is exhausted, stressed, or physically cold, the "recipe for a breakdown in good dog training" is nearly complete.
Chronology of a Training Pivot: From Frustration to Strategy
The trajectory of a training breakdown often follows a familiar path: a moment of failure, followed by self-reproach, and eventually, the necessity of a new perspective.
- The Breaking Point: Following a morning where "leave it" failed and frustration took the lead, the feeling of being a "failure as a trainer" set in. This is a common sentiment during National Dog Training Month, a time when the pressure to have a perfectly behaved dog is at its peak.
- The Federer Epiphany: A transformative moment occurred when reviewing the graduation speech of tennis legend Roger Federer. Despite his status as the sport’s greatest of all time, statistical analysis shows that Federer only won 54% of the points he played throughout his career. This data point offers a profound lesson: even at the pinnacle of mastery, failure is not just possible—it is inevitable.
- The Strategic Shift: Rather than viewing Maggie’s behavior as an act of defiance, the approach shifted to objective observation. Utilizing the principles of positive reinforcement (R+), the plan moved from "stop the behavior" to "channel the behavior." Because Maggie thrives on scent work and food rewards, the new training protocol involves teaching her to alert her handler when she finds waste, rather than consuming it. This turns a problematic behavior into a useful, reward-based task.
Supporting Data: Why Positive Reinforcement Remains the Gold Standard
The movement toward positive reinforcement (R+) is more than a trend; it is a scientifically backed methodology designed to foster communication and trust. Unlike outdated methods that rely on intimidation or aversion, R+ focuses on the antecedent, the behavior, and the consequence.
In the case of husbandry—the daily maintenance of a pet’s health—the value of R+ is particularly evident. For instance, administering daily eye ointment to treat pannus (an immune-mediated eye condition that can lead to blindness) is a notoriously difficult task. Many dogs find the sensation of ointment intrusive and uncomfortable. However, by employing techniques like "The Bucket Game"—a training method pioneered by Chirag Patel—owners can turn a stressful medical requirement into a cooperative experience.

By allowing the dog to "opt-in" to the process, the animal gains a sense of agency, which in turn reduces stress for both the dog and the human. This is the "miracle" of modern behaviorism: shifting the power dynamic from coercion to collaboration.
Official Perspectives and the Current Landscape
The Association of Professional Dog Trainers (APDT) emphasizes that the primary goal of National Dog Training Month is to promote the use of positive reinforcement to build confidence. Despite this, the industry faces challenges from "quick-fix" culture. In many regions, there is a rise in board-and-train facilities that utilize aversive tools, such as electric collars, which often provide immediate suppression of behavior at the cost of long-term trust and mental well-being.
The consensus among behaviorists remains clear: while R+ may take longer to implement than punishment-based methods, the resulting relationship is more resilient and the behaviors are more reliably maintained. The challenge lies in communicating this effectively to the general public, who are often looking for immediate results to complex behavioral issues.
Implications: The Necessity of "Grace"
The most significant implication of this recent period of reflection is the call for "grace"—both for the dog and for the owner.
When a training intervention fails, or when a dog exhibits a behavior that is biologically driven yet socially unacceptable, the owner’s instinct is to internalize the failure. The lesson from the tennis court and the training field is that perfection is a fallacy. We are all doing the best we can with the skills we have at any given moment.
If we can move away from the binary of "success" or "failure," we can instead focus on objective problem-solving. This requires:
- Removing the Ego: Recognizing that the dog is not an opponent to be defeated, but a companion to be understood.
- Contextual Analysis: Examining the antecedents of the behavior rather than simply reacting to the outcome.
- Self-Compassion: Acknowledging that personal exhaustion and stress are valid factors that influence our effectiveness as trainers.
Navigating Medical Uncertainty: A Personal Note
While the focus remains on training, the reality of life on a farm often brings unexpected health scares. Recent concerns regarding Skip, another member of the canine household, highlighted the importance of staying objective during times of fear.

Skip’s symptoms—excessive urination and dilute urine—initially suggested the terrifying possibility of bladder cancer. Through a rigorous medical process involving ultrasounds and blood work, the cancer diagnosis was ruled out, though the search for the underlying cause continues, with concerns currently shifting toward leptospirosis, a dangerous bacterial disease.
This experience underscores the fragility of life and the necessity of maintaining one’s composure. Whether dealing with a health diagnosis or a training hurdle, the ability to "take a breath" and think clearly is the most valuable tool in an owner’s kit.
Conclusion
As we continue through the winter, it is a timely reminder that our dogs are not here to satisfy our need for perfection. They are here to live with us, and we are tasked with guiding them through a human world that can be confusing and overwhelming.
By choosing positive reinforcement, embracing the inevitability of mistakes, and extending grace to ourselves and others, we create a stronger, more honest bond with our animals. Whether you are teaching a dog to ignore a "poopsickle" or simply trying to get through a difficult week, remember: the goal is not to win every point, but to enjoy the game of life together.
As the snow settles on the farm and the work on new projects continues, the message remains: take a breath, be patient, and keep moving forward. Grace is not just a virtue; it is the foundation of a healthy, long-lasting relationship between two species struggling to live in harmony.



